Life comes with many unexpected twists and turns some good some bad. My children have been a journey for me and continue to introduce me to many new chapters in life. Being a mother takes strength don't let anyone tell you any different. If you are trying and putting forth the effort for their well being your strength is at work.

They have no idea of what's to come and it is your job to guide them, whether the storms with them, be their hero, correct them in their wrong doing, and love them above all else unconditionally.

You should be proud that God would bestow such a blessing on your life. To be given such a gift and we tend to take that for granted . From the moment they develop in the womb their outcome from then on out depends on you, your choices, and what you instill in them.

They can break your heart, but at the same time bring the

most joy there is you'll know. Your legacy will live on through them

so if you haven't thought about it yet start thinking about it now!

What will you leave behind for them when you cease to exist? How will they remember you? Are you making the most of the time you have with them?

There is no such thing as a perfect parent in fact there is such beauty in your imperfections because with them comes growth.

Cherish every moment, appreciate every obstacle, answer every question, and always be honest. When they are young they don't ask for much but your love and un interrupted attention. Be your child's biggest influence as they venture out into the world that title can easily be given to someone else. We are in a fight for our children there will be moments where you may seem to be the worst person in their eyes. Stay strong for them, prayer has gotten me this far and even though our life isn't perfect and we don't have all that we want God continues to provide all that we need.